{"id":1764,"date":"2026-02-03T13:33:28","date_gmt":"2026-02-03T18:33:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/?p=1764"},"modified":"2026-02-03T19:16:47","modified_gmt":"2026-02-04T00:16:47","slug":"love-is-an-action-verb","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/index.php\/2026\/02\/03\/love-is-an-action-verb\/","title":{"rendered":"Love is an action verb"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Every February, the stores fill up with hearts.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-rounded\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.busybeaks.com\/79045_foraging_heart.htm\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"142\" height=\"250\" src=\"https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/79045_foraging_heart-142x250.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1765\" style=\"width:173px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/79045_foraging_heart-142x250.jpg 142w, https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/79045_foraging_heart-85x150.jpg 85w, https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/79045_foraging_heart.jpg 340w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 142px) 100vw, 142px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Available at BusyBeaks.com<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery alignright has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Heart mugs.<br>Heart cookies.<br>Heart-shaped toys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Somewhere out there, I\u2019m sure there\u2019s a heart-shaped parrot perch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And listen\u2026 it\u2019s cute.<br>We\u2019re not anti-heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But at Marden\u2019s Ark, love looks a little different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-details is-layout-flow wp-block-details-is-layout-flow\"><summary><\/summary>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-cover alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"188\" class=\"wp-block-cover__image-background wp-image-1768\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/image-1769200505420sm-250x188.jpg\" data-object-fit=\"cover\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/image-1769200505420sm-250x188.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/image-1769200505420sm-150x113.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/image-1769200505420sm-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/image-1769200505420sm-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/image-1769200505420sm-2048x1536.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-cover__background has-background-dim\"><\/span><div class=\"wp-block-cover__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-cover-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-large-font-size\">Dishes, the REAL neverending story<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It usually looks like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>a workday that begins when your feet first hit the ground; coffee comes later, if there&#8217;s time<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>a giant bowl of diced vegetables and five pans of artisan grain casseroles<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>a sink full of dirty dishes that must be done before sleep<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>a tote full of toys that were loved a little too roughly and need gentle repairs<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>a freezer full of grains, nuts, fruit, and baked treats<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>three loads of laundry that all smell faintly like bird and have stains in shades of green and white<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>and me muttering \u201cwho did THIS?!\u201d while scrubbing something off the wall that no Valentine\u2019s card has ever mentioned<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Romantic, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2728 <em>swoon<\/em>\u2728 <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because here\u2019s the thing no one puts on a greeting card:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Love isn\u2019t a noun.<br>It\u2019s a verb.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not something you say.<br>It\u2019s something you do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>showing up when you\u2019re tired<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>learning their body language<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>adjusting the diet because their feathers look dull<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>sitting quietly with the bitey one until they decide you\u2019re safe<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>choosing patience for the 400th scream of the day<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"196\" height=\"250\" src=\"https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_20250808_141850050crop-196x250.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1766\" style=\"width:370px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_20250808_141850050crop-196x250.jpg 196w, https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_20250808_141850050crop-117x150.jpg 117w, https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_20250808_141850050crop-768x981.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_20250808_141850050crop-1202x1536.jpg 1202w, https:\/\/www.avianrefuge.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_20250808_141850050crop.jpg 1350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 196px) 100vw, 196px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s paying attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s sacrifice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s choosing them over convenience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes it\u2019s even choosing them over your favorite molding.<br>(RIP, French doors. You were beautiful.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>People think rescue is big dramatic moments \u2014 heroic saves, happy endings, slow-motion music.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But honestly?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most of it is just\u2026 consistency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The same bowls.<br>The same routines.<br>The same gentle voices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Day after day after day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because to a parrot \u2014 a prey animal with a long memory and a sensitive heart \u2014 <strong>safety is love<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Predictability is love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Good food is love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Clean water is love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Understanding them instead of trying to control them?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s love too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So no, we don\u2019t usually celebrate Valentine\u2019s Day with fancy toys or themed treats.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We celebrate by doing what we always do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We show up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if you support us \u2014 whether you donate, share posts, or send kind messages \u2014 you\u2019re doing it too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re not just saying you care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re proving it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And honestly?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s the kind of love that lasts longer than chocolate anyway.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Although if someone invents bird-safe chocolate, call me immediately.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Happy Valentine\u2019s Day<br>from everybirdy at Marden&#8217;s Ark \u2014 feathered, loud, messy, and very loved. \ud83d\udc9c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Every February, the stores fill up with hearts. Heart mugs.Heart cookies.Heart-shaped toys. Somewhere out there, I\u2019m sure there\u2019s a heart-shaped parrot perch. And listen\u2026 it\u2019s cute.We\u2019re not anti-heart. 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